June 14, 1984
In these, and
all situations, it should be remembered that the body is always trying to heal
itself, and that even the most complicated relationships are trying to
untangle.
For all of
life’s seeming misfortunes, development, fulfillment, and accomplishment far
outweigh death, diseases, and disasters.
Starting over can be done – by anyone in any situation, and it will
bring about some beneficial effects regardless of previous conditions.
Behind all
maladies, in the most basic manner lies the need for expression, and when
people feel that their areas of growth are being curtailed, then they instigate
actions meant to clear the road, so to speak.
Before health
problems show up there is almost always a loss of self-respect or
expression. This loss may occur in the
environment itself, in changing social conditions. In the matter of the disease called AIDS, for
example, you have groups of homosexuals, many “coming out of the closet” for
the first time, taking part in organizations that promote their cause, and
suddenly faced by the suspicions and distrust of many other portions of the
population.
The struggle to
express themselves, and their own unique abilities and characteristics drives
them on, and yet is all too frequently thwarted by the ignorance and
misunderstanding that surrounds them.
You end up with something like a psychological contagion. The people involved begin to feel even more
depressed as they struggle to combat the prejudice against them. Many of them almost hate themselves. For all their seeming bravado, they fear that
they are indeed unnatural members of the species.
These beliefs
break down the immunity system, and bring about the symptoms so connected with
the disease. AIDS is a social phenomenon
to that extent, expressing the deep dissatisfactions, doubts, and angers of a
prejudiced-against segment of society.
Whatever
physical changes occur, happen because the will to live is weakened. AIDS is a kind of biological protest, as if
symbolically the homosexuals are saying: “You may as well kill us. We might be better off than the way you treat
us now”, or as if it were a kind of suicidal drama in which the messages
read: “See to what ends your actions have led us!”
I am not saying
that AIDS victims are outright suicides – only that in many instances the will
to live is so weakened and a despondency so strong sets in that such
individuals often acquiesce, finally, to their own deaths, seeing no room in the
future for their own further growth or development.
The attitude
even of doctors and nurses toward the handling of such patients shows only too
clearly not only their fear of the disease itself, but their fear of
homosexuality, which has been considered evil and forbidden by many
religions. Emotions run at top pace in
such cases, and the AIDS patients are often shunted away, out of human
society. Often even their friends desert
them. Yet AIDS can be acquired by those
who are not homosexuals, but who have similar problems. It is a great error to segregate some
individuals, like some modern colony of lepers.
Homosexuals can
benefit from the ideas in this book, particularly if small groups get together,
examining their own beliefs, and reinforcing their will to live, their right
to live, and the basic integrity of their being.
Any anger or
hostility should also be expressed, however, while not being overly
concentrated upon.
Many other
diseases that seem to be spread by viruses or contagions are also related to
the problems of society in the same manner, and when those conditions are
righted the diseases themselves largely vanish.
It should be remembered that it is the beliefs and feelings of the
patients that largely determine the effectiveness of any medical procedures,
techniques, or medications.
Unfortunately, the
entire picture surrounding health and disease is a largely negative one, in which
even so-called preventative medicine can have severe drawbacks, since it often recommends
drugs or techniques to attack a problem not only before the problem emerges,
but simply in case it may emerge.
Many of the public-health
announcements routinely publicize the specific symptoms of various diseases, almost
as if laying out maps of diseases for medical consumers to swallow. There are many techniques apart from medically
conventional ones, such as acupuncture, the laying on of hands, or the work of people
who may be known as healers. The trouble
is that these other techniques cannot be monitored sufficiently so that their benefits
can be honestly appraised.
The body’s own healing
processes are forever active, however – which is why I so strongly advise
that they be relied upon along with whatever medical help seems appropriate. But the individual, even as a patient, must always
have a choice, and have the right to refuse any treatment being suggested.
The main issue is
always the vital importance of the individual’s belief systems, however, and the
sense of worth he or she places on body and mind.
We have been dealing
with quite drastic diseases, but the same concepts are true in other areas also.
There are people who undergo a series of
highly unsatisfactory relationships, for example, while another person might experience
a series of recurrent diseases instead. In
spite of all problems, the life force operates continually in each person’s life,
and can bring about at any time the most profound, beneficial changes. The idea is to clear the mind as much as possible
from beliefs that impede the fine, smooth workings of the life force, and to actively
encourage those beliefs and attitudes that promote health and the development of
all aspects of healing experience.
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