Tuesday, April 21, 2015

What To Ask For

Seth Early Sessions, Vol 8, Session 403


What To Ask For


You must want what is best for your own development and the development of others rather than specifically determining what you think consciously is better for you and then trying to force or coerce fate to get this for you.  If want what is best for your own development and what is best for the development of others, then you shall attain it.  It shall come to you effortlessly.  I am leading up to certain issues here.  You are not always aware of what is best for you on a conscious level.  Often the person that you think you want or need is not the person you want or need on other levels.  When you drive your car you often attempt to speed through reality as quickly as you can, and you are pleased with yourself as the driver of the vehicle.  You like driving because you feel that it gets you where you want to go and quickly, and you do not mind breaking a few small rules of the road in the process.  Now the small rules that you break, are indeed, minute ones.  It is not that you break a specific rule; it is the attitude that allows you to break the rule; and this applies to other roads beside the physical highway.  You want to get to your destination too quickly.  The destination is within you.  You do not have to go any place to get to that destination; and it is only when you think that that destination lies elsewhere that you allow yourself to go astray.  Your identity is within you and do not look for it in others.  This is perhaps the strongest point of my message to you this evening, the one I would have you take to heart.  When you realize that your own identity is within, you will not spend energy seeking to find yourself in others.  Others cannot give you a sense of worth; this is your own.  Any lack is your own lack.


  Now, you have learned a good deal, and I know that you have tried.  It does no good to understand issues intellectually, however, or even to understand them intuitively unless you understand them so thoroughly that they become a part of your daily life.  Much that you know you have made a part of your life, but you still wish to use your knowledge for your own conscious purposes.  You are still not willing to say let me develop as I should develop.  You are still saying let me develop as I think I should develop.  The I being a highly egotistical I.  You are still saying, let me develop as I want to develop.  You are still saying I want this person or I want that person or that thing.  Therefore shall I use this ability and this knowledge to gain it.  And that is why you have given yourself a traffic ticket now and then.  What you are learning is a technique for self-development.  You cannot use it, therefore, to attain those things that do not pertain to your own self-development and the techniques will not help you get something that you were not meant to have nor that you have before decided as an entity that you should not have.   Nevertheless, the facts remain that your own inner self and your own entity have given you challenges that you have accepted.  Now you know these challenges; subconsciously you are aware of them.  Consciously you do not want to accept them and this is one reason why you have had difficulty with the pendulum.  This is not out of the ordinary.  This happens to many personalities.  It is nothing to blame yourself for.  You are certainly in the midst of a certain line of development.  You cannot blame yourself for not being further along the line.  The very fact that you are here this evening, the very fact that you are trying as hard as you have been shows that you are indeed developing and that you are indeed learning.  There must be an open-minded, an open-hearted attitude here.  You must not try to use what you have learned in a narrow, limiting way.  This hampers your own development.  It closes your eyes to many possibilities that will be important to you.  It is natural, perhaps, to want to use what you have learned, this information, as a technique to achieve what you at any particular time think desirable, a particular person, a particular thing.  But what is important is the inner development.  If this is taken care of, it will automatically lead you to the person that is best for you and to the circumstances that will help you develop.  To insist that a specific individual or a specific goal be attained through these methods is limiting.  There must always be the acknowledgement that you do not consciously as yet realize the depths of yourself, the goals you have set and the challenges, and this material should be used to open up your inner horizons and to lead you in those directions toward which your inner self has already set you.  If you then egotistically, say “No, this particular situation is what I want”, then you may be blocking the inner direction which has been meant for you.

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