Friday, March 30, 2018

Cruelty and suffering

Is there a theme for this book?

DeMarco, Frank. Rita's World: A View from the Non-Physical (Kindle Location 3736). Rainbow Ridge Books. Kindle Edition

(Q)  ... would you care to point us toward the theme of the book - if it is to be a book - or of the conversations anyway?

(A)  Of course I have a theme in mind, but perhaps it is better if each person derives his or her own idea as we go along.  The danger, you see, is that if I explicitly were to say, "the theme is -" then everything said after that point, not to mention before that point, might be forced into conformity with what someone assumed I meant by the theme.  Fluidity in perception is much more important than consistency of thought.  In fact, the effort to enforce consistency would be a great impediment.  So, I think I will decline to state my intentions, and you will have to figure them out as best you can, in the only way you ever absorb new material - you will have to wrestle with it, question it, question yourself, be alert for your own possible unconscious assumptions and be willing to question them once they happen to come to light.

Cruelty and suffering

DeMarco, Frank. Rita's World: A View from the Non-Physical (Kindle Location's 3743). Rainbow Ridge Books. Kindle Edition

(Q)  Charles: "Suffering: It's difficult trying to reconcile 'all is well' with the conditions in 3D.  Some statistics:  45.2 million people are living in refugee camps, 21,000 people die of starvation each day, 500,000 people murdered in a year.  Of course, I wouldn't know this if I didn't read the news on the Internet, because it's not my subjective reality.  Is the 3D person choosing these circumstances?  Is it true that no matter what happens, car accidents, cancer, etc., we in 3D are making the choice?  Or is non-3D making the choice and we in 3D are the focal point to see how we handle it?  And the question from Martha fits nicely depending on the answer you get."

[Martha: "Every day I ask what in the world can be the purpose of all of the suffering in the world?  After eons of time, haven't these so called larger beings had enough of it?  I'm sure their 3D strands would appreciate a break from these never-ending plotlines of pain and war, disease and poverty, pollution and cruelty.  And back to yesterday's session, could she expand on the part about non-3D entities that interact with us and how much influence they have as telepathic troublemakers or helpers?"]

(A)  As you may imagine, I see the question quite a lot differently now than I did when I was in the body.  As you will remember, I was quite concerned about all these things, and I ached to be able to do something effective to stop it all, but there was so little I could do.  Sending money to charities was about the practical limit to my ability, and that seemed so limited as to be almost pathetic.  I kept up with the news, more so as my physical mobility became more limited and my world constricted.  So, it was a reorientation for me when we heard the guys first say, "All is well.  All is always well."  It took quite a while before I came to believe it.  At first I took it provisionally, in the way one does, tasting it, feeling how we respond to it.  And I questioned them on it, I seem to remember, but gently.  I was asking the questions, and if I got answers I didn't expect or didn't immediately understand or agree with, should I quarrel with the answer, or pursue it until I was sure I understood?  And, in fact, over time I came to see what they meant, and came to at least provisionally accept it.

(Q)  But we did not have you "there" to explain to us.

(A)  We did, in a way, of course.  I was here then as you are here now.  But I know what you mean.  So, I will try to give the explanation that would have helped me then.

You, Frank, will remember the explanation about childhood trauma.  But others will not, so I'll mention it here.  I was bemoaning its lasting effects that could persist through a person's entire life, warping their perceptions and inhibiting their choices - their real choices, available to them - and the guys reframed it, saying that if someone came into life wanting to experience a certain set of things, of which feelings, emotions, reactions would all be part - a childhood trauma that enabled/required them to continually call to themselves reminders, or triggers, that would lead them to experience it again would be very useful, ensuring that they would experience the same thing, from slightly different angles, until they were through with it, either in that life or when the life was ended.

(Q)  Or afterwards?

(A)  They didn't say that, but it is true, in the form of unfinished business, it could continue into another life.  And bookmark this statement, it is important.  But to stick to the subject at hand:

It is in that sense that all is well.  Suffering is useful.

Now, that doesn't mean that inflicting suffering is justified, nor that observing it unmoved is justified.  One's reaction to observing the suffering of others stems from one's value system and one's ability to feel.  The fact that suffering is useful to the person suffering does not justify sadism or indifference.

However, the fact that suffering occurs in life is only to be expected in the world of duality.  But this is a very tangled subject, with interrelated themes.

·      Justice of the world
·      Manifestation of hidden relationships
·      Delusions of competence

Let's stop with just those three, for the moment.

The justice of the world

DeMarco, Frank. Rita's World: A View from the Non-Physical (Kindle Location's 3788). Rainbow Ridge Books. Kindle Edition

The world is just.  However, any particular time-slice is apt to be very unbalanced, full of what looks like injustices.  It is as if you were, on Tuesday, to see all the week as Tuesday and think how out of proportion it is, for it never to be Wednesday.  An absurd example, but I meant to show that any judgment of a situation made from consideration only of a present moment is necessarily going to be so constricted, so short-sighted, as to be wildly inadequate.

As an example, tell the story of the man at Timelines in 2003.

(Q)  [Mick had been raised by parents who were abusive and allowed him no free will whatever. He was punished for the most trivial things.  After one of the exercises, he relived a memory of a life in which he had done the same things to others.  The point was not to punish him, but now he knew what it felt like.]

But as I'm writing that here, I'm seeing all kinds of reincarnation questions arising.

(A)  Defer them.  The point is, the world never seems just, and at any given moment it probably never is just.  But seen from a larger view, it is and must be.  Again, that doesn't mean it is all right to be cruel or indifferent.  It means, by all means, express your compassion, but don't think that because this person or that group of people is suffering, therefore the world is unjust.  They in this lifetime may have done nothing to "deserve" what is done to them.  But nothing happens to anyone that is not fully compensated, see it or not, believe it or not.

So, justice.  But we had better stop here and continue another time.

(Q)  All right.  I must say, "manifestations of hidden relationships" was clear to me as I wrote it down, but now I have no idea what it means.

(A)  I guess you'll have to stay tuned, won't you?

(Q)  I guess I will.  Till next time, then.

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