Mass Events, Session 824
In connection
with the creation of the universe, and with the creation of public and private
events alike, let us for a moment consider a different kind of myth.
Tonight, during a
pleasant supper time, our friends Ruburt and Joseph watched a television
production based upon the Cinderella fairy tale. According to the definition I gave earlier,
this fairy tale is a myth. Surely it may
seem that such a children’s tale has little to do with any serious adult
discussion concerning anything so profound as the creation of the known
world. And most certainly, it may
appear, no scientifically pertinent data about the nature of events can
possibly be uncovered from such a source.
For one thing,
[the] Cinderella [tale] has a happy ending, of course, and is therefore highly
unrealistic (with irony), according
to many educators, since it does not properly prepare children for life’s
necessary disappointments. Fairy
godmothers are definitely a thing of the storyteller’s imagination, and many
serious, earnest adults will tell you that daydreaming or wishing will get you
nowhere.
In the Cinderella
story, however, the heroine, though poor and of low estate, manages to attain a
fulfilling and seemingly impossible goal.
Her desire to attend a spectacular ball, and meet the prince, initiates
a series of magical events, none following the dictates of logic. The fairy godmother, suddenly appearing, uses
the normal objects of everyday life so that they are suddenly transformed, and
we have a chariot from a pumpkin, and other transformation of a like nature.
The tale has
always appealed to children because they recognize the validity behind it. The fairy godmother is a creative
personification of the personalized elements in Framework 2 – a personification
therefore of the inner ego, that rises to the aid of the mortal self to grant
its desires, even when the intents of the mortal self may not seem to fit into
the practical framework of normal life.
When the inner ego responds in such a fashion, even the commonplace,
ordinary, seemingly innocuous circumstances, suddenly become charged with a new
vitality, and appear to “work for” the individual involved. If you are reading this book you are already
too old to clearly remember the constant fantasies of your early
childhood. Children however know quite
well, automatically, that they have a strong hand in the creation of the events
that then seem to happen to them.
They experiment
very often, and quite secretly, since their elders are at the same time trying
to make the children conform to a given concrete reality that is more or less
already mass-produced for them.
Children
experiment with the creation of joyful and frightening events, trying to
ascertain for themselves the nature of their control over their own
experience. They imagine joyful and
terrifying experiences. They are in fact
fascinated by the effects that their thoughts, feelings, and purposes have upon
daily events. This is a natural learning
process. If they create “bogeymen”, then
they can cause them to disappear also.
If their thoughts can cause them to become ill, then there is no real
reason for them to fear illness, for it is their own creation. This learning process is nipped in the bud,
however. By the time you are adults, it
certainly seems that you are a subjective being in an objective universe, at
the mercy of others, and with only the most superficial control over the events
of your lives.
The tale of
Cinderella becomes a fantasy, a delusion or even a story about sexual
awakening, in Freudian terms. The
disappointments you have faced indeed make such a tale seem to be a direct
contradiction to life’s realities. To
some extent or another, however, the child in you remembers a certain sense of
mastery only half realized, of power nearly grasped, then seemingly lost
forever – and a dimension of existence in which dreams quite literally came
true. The child in you sensed more, of course:
It sensed its own greater reality in another framework entirely, from which it
had only lately emerged – yet with which it was intimately connected. It felt itself surrounded, then, by the
greater realities of Framework 2.
The child knew “that
it came from somewhere else” – not by chance but by design. The child knew that in one way or another its
most intimate thoughts, dreams, and gestures were as connected with the natural
world as blades of grass are to a field.
The child knew it was a unique and utterly original event or being that
on the one hand was its own focus, and that on the other hand belonged to its
own time and season. In fact, children let
little escape them, so that, again, they experiment constantly in an effort to
discover not only the effect of their thoughts and intents and wishes
upon others, but the degree to which others influence their own behavior. To that extent, they deal rather directly
with probabilities in a way quite foreign to adult behavior.
In a fashion, they
make quicker deductions than adults, and often truer ones, because they are not
conditioned by a past of structured memory.
Their subjective experience then brings them in rather direct contact
with the methods by which events are formed.
Children
understand the importance of symbols, and they use them constantly to protect
themselves – not from their own reality but from the adult world. They constantly pretend, and they quickly
learn that persistent pretending in any one area will result in a
physically-experienced version of the imagined activity. They also realize that they do not possess
full freedom, either, for certain pretended situations will happen in less
faithful versions than the imagined ones.
Others will seem almost entirely blocked, and never materialize.
Before children
are acquainted with conventional ideas of guilt and punishment, they realize
that it is easier to bring about good events, through wishing, than it is to
bring about unhappy ones. The child
carries with him [or her] the impetus and supporting energy provided him at birth
from Framework 2, and he knows intuitively that desires conducive to his
development “happen” easier than those that are not. His natural impulses naturally lead him
toward the development of his body and mind, and he is aware of a cushioning
effect and support as he acts in accordance with those inner impulses. The child is innately honest. When he gets sick he intuitively knows the
reason why, and he knows quite well that he brought about the illness.
Parents and
physicians believe, instead, that the child is a victim, ill for no personal
reason, but indisposed because of elements attacking him – either the
outside environment, or [something] working against him from within. The child may be told: “You have a cold
because you got your feet wet”. Or: “You
caught the cold from Johnny or Sally”.
He may be told that he has a virus, so that it seems his body itself was
invaded despite his will. He learns that
such beliefs are acceptable. It is
easier to go along than to be honest, particularly when honesty would often
involve a kind of communication his parents might frown upon, or the expression
of emotions that are quite unacceptable.
Mother’s little
man or brave little girl can then stay at home, for example, courageously
bearing up under an illness, with his or her behavior condoned. The child may know that the illness is the
result of feelings that the parents would consider quite cowardly, or otherwise
involves emotional realities that the parents simply would not understand. Gradually it becomes easier for the child to
accept the parent’s assessment of the situation. Little by little the fine relationship, the
precise connections between psychological feelings and bodily reality, erode.
I do not want to
oversimplify, and throughout this book we will add other elaborations upon such
behavior. The child who gets the mumps
with a large number of classmates, however, knows he has his private reasons
for joining into such a mass biological reality, and usually the adult who “falls
prey” to a flu epidemic has little conscious awareness of his own reasons for
such a situation. He does not understand
the mass suggestions involved, or his own reasons for accepting them. He is usually convinced instead that his body
has been invaded by a virus despite his own personal approval or
disapproval. He is therefore a victim,
and his sense of personal power is eroded.
When a person
recovers from such an ordeal, he [or she] usually grants his recovery to be the
result of the medication he has been given.
Or he may think that he was simply lucky – but he does not grant himself
to have any real power in such an affair.
The recovery seems to occur to him, as the illness seemed to
happen to him. Usually the
patient cannot see that he brought about his own recovery, and was responsible
for it, because he cannot admit that his own intents were responsible for his
own illness. He cannot learn from his
own experience, then, and each bout of illness will appear largely
incomprehensible.
Some years ago,
before our sessions actually began (in late 1963) – though immediately previous
– Ruburt (Jane) had an experience
that he has described in his own books.
The event resulted
in a scribbled manuscript unpublished, called The Physical Universe as Idea Construction. His desire and intense intent to understand
more of the nature of reality triggered the production of that fragmentary
automatic manuscript. He found himself as
a young adult, at the time of the President Kennedy assassination, in a world
that seemed to have no meaning.
At the same time, while conditioned by the beliefs of his generation –
beliefs that still tinge our times – he held on to one supporting belief never
completely lost from childhood.
His belief,
illogical as it sounded when spoken, contradictory as it seemed when applied
to daily life, stated that the individual somehow could perceive the nature of
reality on his or her own by virtue of innate capacities that belonged to the
individual by right – capacities that were a part of man’s heritage. In other words, Ruburt felt that there was a
slim chance of opening doors of knowledge that had been closed, and he decided
to take that chance.
The results,
appearing initially in that now-yellowed handwritten script, made him initially
see that he had chosen the events of his life in one way or another, and that
each person was not the victim but the creator of those events that were
privately experienced or jointly encountered with others.
In that literally
power-packed few hours, he also knew that the physical senses did not so much
perceive concrete phenomena, but actually had a hand in the creation of events
that were then perceived as actual.
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